The Desperatewomen survey: comments
some of what women wrote about women's peeing!
(for men's comments click here)

Women write:
'After I saw some porn featuring girls peeing on each other, I tried peeing standing up and liked it. I started peeing in plastic bottles to see what my pee looked and felt like, and even tried tasting it. Then I started deliberately pissing in my panties in my bedroom, pressed against a wadded-up bath towel. Physically, I liked the warm, wet feeling, and psychologically, I liked the feeling of doing something socially unacceptable.  I stopped doing it because I was worried that my parents would find out!

I like the way pee looks when it flows out of a woman's cunt, especially if she is standing up.  I also like seeing something that I have never actually seen happen in real life.  I like the idea of a women breaking social norms and peeing in public like men do.  I like the idea of the warm, wet feeling that a woman would create by pissing on herself or on her lover.  Finally, seeing a woman peeing makes me feel like I need to go, and I like the sensation which that creates in my pussy.' Age 21, UK.

'I have enjoyed peeing on women on many occassions and had women pee on me on several occassions.  What I enjoy most is when either I or the other girl is "dressed to the nines" like going to the opera. I like peeing on a woman or being peed on by a woman when the person who gets peed upon is wearing a nice designer dress or gown and outdoors too.' Age 40, USA.

'My favorite is a night in downtown, lots of fluids, and then walking in the park. Then getting desperate by commenting to my husband, "I got to pee" around people and fingering my crotch. Then they watch us make a bline for the grass, and I stop and pull my pants down and let go within sight of everyone. I love it and do it all the time, but most is not on purpose.' Age 32, USA.

'When I was 17 I was in the shower after PE class and was a witness to a GS, the next day I was part of it, from then on it was at least a weekly occurance for about 8 of us girls.
I worked for an airline as a stewardess for awhile. On a long flight the bathrooms went out, and one of my fellow girls finally had an accident in her white knee length skirt. We had nothing for her to change into, so she had to work about 3 more hours that way.' Age 31, USA.

'(I like) women peeing outside standing up. But also when they are desperate to pee and have to go outside in different positions, really turns me on. I am turned on now just writing this!' Age 17, England.

'The desire to go makes me very horny. I love to hold it and test my control. Favorite: Absolutely desperate, leg crossing fullness!' Age 36, USA.

'I am a female who urinates while dressed in public and on purpose. The fact that others can see me either wetting or see the results of my wetting is a big turn on. I love wearing tight fitting slacks with very colorful panties underneath.' Age 47, USA.

'For some reason when I was about 5 I used to play with my toys, dolls, and action figures, and as I was playing I was always creating the situation where one of the characters had to pee desprately but couldn't find a bathroom. I found this very fascinating and it always gave me a rush to make them say how bad they needed to go. I started writing desperation stories, and now I still do. Now I LOVE desperation and I'm experimenting with peeing in different ways and places! My ultimate fantasy is to be with a man that I am highly interested in and being filled with agonizing liters of water so that I can't hold on, and eventually have him help me find a place to pee. Or having to drop my pants on the spot and let him watch in awe as I desperately relieve myself.' Age 19, USA.

'I would like to see a woman who is dying to pee, try to get into her house but she can't find her key and while she tries to find it, she pees herself.....half crying and half enjoying it because it turns her on. Or the same situation but two women, one is trying to find the key while the other is desperate and holding herself. They are both wearing jeans, the one woman who is holding herself starts to cry/moan with pain. Then she swears and starts to pee herself in front of her friend, who gets kinda turned on but keeps it to herself. She too has to pee and lets it lose in her jeans, but she describes how it feels to have it run down her legs.' Age 22, USA.

'(I like to see) just desperation of someone really posh and snobby, definitely whilst wearing a dress, so much classier.' Age 19, England.

'I am a woman who likes holding it.' Age 35, USA

'First time I got interested in urination was in elementary school, watching guys and girls being desperate to pee when the teacher wouldn't let them... Then one day I had a dream about watching a guy desperately holding himself until he lost control, and I woke up with my first orgasm. :) So I'm really into desperation by itself...more than GS or WS that don't intrigue me at all. I like to see male or female, desperately making an effort to hold their pee and having to wait and wait. I masturbate to memories of things I've seen and stories I've read.' Age 26, Korea.

'(I'd like to see) women peeing in a men's urinal next to a man.' Age 45, England.

'I had to pee standing in the shower, I find unusual places and ways to piss at home. I'm somewhat obsessed with watching myself piss, and fantasizing about other people watching me piss, perhaps there should be questions about that. My favorite fantasy is a sexy (i.e. not imaciated) woman, naked, and on all fours pissing because she just can't hold it in anymore, in a very public place (ex. on a picnic table at a public park).' Age 18, USA.

'I play desperation games with myself and if I'm driving with another female on a car trip, I delay stopping at rest areas to watch my friend(s) squirm. Little do they know it secretly turns me on to see them beg me to stop, to watch them bouce and hold themselves! My ideal desperation situation is the elevator or a long car or bus trip. I would like to see a cute female with a classical form (none of this skinny shit, okay?) with gorgeous, wavy auburn hair to her waist, wearing jeans and a peasant shirt with sandals, be desperate to pee on a bus trip. I would be sitting next to her on the bus and she would be shifting in her seat and have a pained look in her eyes. I would say, "You okay?" and she would be like, "Well, I hope I can hold out til the next stop." And I'd play dumb and say, "What do you mean?" She'd tell me she has to pee really bad, and I'd sympathize with her and say we'd probably be stopping soon. Meanwhile I'd swig on a water bottle being sure to swish it around and make a lot of noise all the while acting totally calm. I'd watch her bob and dance in her seat trying to keep her cool and when we do finally stop, revel in delight at the slight wet patch on her butt.' Age 19, USA.

'(I like to) set up situations where an accident or at least desperation would be likely, like offering B vitamin green teas shortly before going to a public garden or amusement park or something where it hits all of a sudden and urgently, and there are no easily available restrooms. My favorite fantasy is a slightly larger woman 150 to 200 pounds, dark hair, pretty, but not magazine or model gorgeous (not into that type at all) real situation like in a car in traffic, at a largely populated yet incredibly casual place (amusement park, public gardens, parade etc) Wearing tightish jeans, leggings or shorts with casual teeshirt or blouse and are genuinely trying to prevent an accident but are becoming increasingly desperate and panicky or emotional with slow release due to attempting to remain control right up till the bladder is empty. Complete with vocal wimpers of desparation and pleas for control and help out of the situation.' Age 34, USA.

'I always liked to pee myself. I like the feeling and the humiliation of being caught wetting. I like to warn my surroundings that I have to go and someone holds me back, maybe because my bus is coming or I have to answer some questions. Then everyone will expect me to wet myself and look at me, when it happens. Age 19, Denmark.

'Still wet my pants sometimes. I have a fantasy of peeing my pants in the classroom.' Age 18, Netherlands.

'I put myself in desperate positions where I can't use a toilet, even at the risk of wetting my pants in public places. I like to see an attractive woman in tight jeans, fidgeting desperately in a bathroom line and ultimately wetting her pants before her turn to use the toilet.' Age 22, USA.

'I like my girlfriend pissing with her clothes on: jeans, white panties, the panties went see-thru.' Age 20, England.

'I AM FEMALE!!! and I love being soooooooo desperate that I lose control and end up peeing in my panties!!!!' Age 45, England.

'I don't ever remember not waiting til the last possible moment before going to the toilet. I love the desperate feeling and I love losing control and wetting. I like a woman wearing jeans becoming more and more desperate then finally wetting.' Age 42, USA.

'I really like watching women desperate to pee and not making it to the loo in time, preferably in public!!! In tight faded jeans.....Another of my MAJOR fantasies is having a shy girl on a date (I'm openly bi) and go out on the drink and both be peeing so much we pee clear hot water, and take her home and be going down on her and have her becoming really desperate to pee and being too shy to ask for a pee break and starting to pee in my mouth. I love the idea of it but when it comes to it I don't like the taste of pee, or smell really usually, but the idea really ges me wet.' Age 18, Austrailia.

'I prefer male desperation but I like to see women bursting to go, squirming, and then letting it go.' Age 21, USA.

'Someone being desperate to pee and either laughing so hard she pees on herself, or someone who has to go so badly she can't hold it. This is soooooooo sexy :-)' age 28, Belgium.

'A friend was sleeping over and had to pee. I asked to go with her to potty and while she was peeing, I rubbed her pussy. Later she did the same for me, then in the morning we got in my tub and peed on each other.' Age 44, USA.

'When I was 7, I found a pack of really old diapers (back from when I was a baby) in my wardrobe. I wondered what it would be like to pee in them. My mom found out and punished me; the idea of naughtiness never left me. I enjoy the smell of my own pee sometimes, depending on what I ate before. Other people's pee doesn't turn me on as much. (I like) a woman peeing through her panties or nylons when she's wearing a skirt, or when she's wearing jeans or other tight pants with fabric that darkens a lot when it's wet. I don't like swimsuit pee; it's "not clothed enough"!' Age 19, Canada.

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